Have you ever notice how we want to escape from every phase
of life? As a child you want to become a teenager, as a teenager you want to
become an adult ….. Become self-sufficient, you want to leave home, you want to
be independent, you want to start you own new life! Parents start seeming annoying,
their care seems like taunts, and you can’t stand their concern for even one
fraction of a second! And yes I know you also would’ve read a million trillion
articles about how parents sacrifice so much for us and how thankless we kids
are in return.
But here I am in a weird forked path in my life, in the next
60 days I leave my only support system….and go away…. In the next 60 days I get
married to a man who I think I know. But in return I have to leave behind
someone who halted her own breath for my first breath; I leave behind someone
who has been not a single mother but a double mother! Someone who I have
tortured to tears, and loved to laughter, someone I cannot imagine living a
single day without, my best enemy, my worst friend (she can’t take sarcasm) …. I
was really little when our family of three became a family of two, but I was
twenty when I actually realized that we were a family of two, because all these
years she never made me feel for even a fraction of second that I was missing
out on something in life. And the immature person that I was never understood
that it was actually she who missed out on her entire life. For me she lived on,
for me she smiled, for me she put up a bold front, for me she carried on her
life…… but never lived it. Now for the past 11 years she lived like the way I
wanted her to live, she smiled to hide her sorrows only so that I wouldn’t see
her pain.
For someone who has made so many sacrifices for me….. How
can I just turn my back and move ahead in life? How do I? Every night is the
same question, how do I leave someone alone who stayed alone her entire life so
that I am not alone. How do I? How do I live a life without someone I haven’t
lived a second without. No, no one can love me more than she does and no one
can love her more than I do. It goes without saying that no one can ever make
as many sacrifices as she has for me…. No one, what I cannot answer is a
question that I have raised myself; again being the selfish daughter that I am
the question is not “how will she live without me” the question is “how will I live
without her”? I cannot even come up with
an imaginative answer let alone a realistic answer.
Do I regret my decision? Yes, I shouldn’t have made this decision
so soon in life…. What do I do? The day I saw my father lying there lifeless I clung
onto my mother’s dupatta and decided never to let go , today when I stand on
this forked path I don’t want to let go of that dupatta…. I don’t want to let
go of her fragrance (which makes me sneeze :p) I don’t want to miss her , I want to be with her , I want her next to me…
from my first breath to my last.